You are welcome Wilks glad you are getting your money's worth

I am getting an education from this thread as well

I think the key here so far is considering your costs as part of your investing strategy. If you can reduce the cost of investing below 2% you give yourself some advantage before you purchase. The fees on certain things are very high even some DRIPS have fees but management fees on mutual funds tend to upset me more than on ETF's. The ETF's tend to be more performance oriented and the Mutual Funds fees are there regardless of performance. I feel I can do better than most fund managers in particular mutual fund managers so I will avoid them like the plague unless there is a good advantage to me.
I had another thought about your cash and the SPY thing. Maybe you can use a series of laddered CD's to finance your purchases of SPY. Buy a cd with the cash you have and save cash for a year at the end of the year you buy 5k or so worth would not know iff there would be an advantage to it I am not from the US so do not understand how they work. Here we use a similar thing called GIC's and they can be purchased for as low as 1k for 30, 60, 90 days or more. My thought here is that as you are saving toward a yearly or every 6 months purchase all your money makes good interest while you wait.