haha, well if I know anything about relationships then I would definitely fear your wife more than working to make the lost $5000 back!
To be honest I do not know anything about this company and can't be of much help. Assuming it is at $.04 now there is probably little hope, and considering you have lost so much it may be worth your while to simply hold the stock and see if can make a comeback over the next few years.
Regardless a lesson should be learned from this, use stop losses!
http://www.stocktradingtogo.com/2009...s-for-success/
Also pick up a copy of How to Make Money in Stocks by Will Oneil, it is a must read for new investors,
http://www.stocktradingtogo.com/2008...vesting-books/